Guys need many things to not only survive fatherhood but to succeed in their new as dad. Every dad could probably answer this question differently so we asked our community to list their three essentials for dads. Here’s what we heard (spoiler alert: beer came up…a lot)

Douglas Lee Davis: Patience to let her try and some times even fail at things. Courage to let her grow up to be the woman she was meant to be. A strong right hook for anyone who tries to hurt her.

Jessica Wainwright: A strong back for piggy back rides, clean toes for painting, and a huge heart for forgiveness, patience, and love.

Kerry Estill: Love, patience and lots of melatonin.

Tom Roberts: Compassion, patience and quick reflexes.

Lexie Andmike Pocock: Money, ear plugs and a good set of best putters 2022.

Kevin Vail: An open heart, an open mind, and Star Wars.

Jason Daly: Wet wipes, Wet wipes, and more wet wipes.

Tracy Stephenson: Ear thermometer, oral gel, and extra diapers/wipes (when you think you only need to bring along one – take three.

3 things every dad needs

Todd Francis: Unconditional love, infinite patience and a trip to a cigar bar to buy some quality drew estate cigars.

Josh Mansmith: Love, Wisdom and Mad French Toast Skills.

Brandon Lawhon: Unlimited drinks, changes of clothes, and string cheese.

Antony Snow: Lego skills, solid T-Rex impression and a constant supply of sun block!

Michelle Soto: Patience, sense of humor, a cup (to protect from accidental attacks to the family jewels).

Daniel Krokovic: Creativity, energy, and cash money.

Kieran Rowland: Beer, TV, bacon.

Donn Sears: 1) Perseverance, to get him through anything life brings his way 2) Time, to share with his children and 3) Money, to provide life’s necessities (Food, clothing, shelter, education).

Travis McGrath: Patience, the ability to make a fool of themselves to make a small person smile, and a strong partner.

Finally, from Frank Reyes: Humility, humor and the ability to see the world through child’s eyes.

That’s a perfect place to finish. The ability to see the world through the eyes of a small child. Beautiful.

What are your three essential must-haves in your life of dad? Keep the conversation going on our Facebook page!

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