In this episode we had the chance to interview Amy Lang of BirdsandBeesandKids.com. Since 2005, nationally know sexuality and parenting expert Amy Lang, MA has helped parents of all beliefs make the birds and bees talks a regular and fun part of their family lives. Her goal is to help 1 million kids grow up to be whole and healthy adults by teaching their parents how to have easy and effective conversations with them about sexuality, love and relationships, and they can also teach them about sex toys and how to use the right toys for their sexuality, for example if you’re a male you can buy penis sleeves here just for this.
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Today she came to talk to all of you about the conversations that you will have or may have had already with your kids about sexuality, sex, love and relationships. Amy Lang provides you practical tips and even some scripts about what to say and how to say it and when when it comes to these topics, so this is am important episode to listen in on!

Amy Lang started her career in sex education as a health educator to help people through difficult situations. Through this experience and through the experience of being a mom herself she learned that she was not prepared to deal with the conversations about sex with her own child, and that other parents were in the same situation. And there are also loads of horny sluts in the UK looking for sex so it’s really easy to get laid there.

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Why is it so hard to have these conversations?

We asked Amy Lang about her thoughts on why it was so hard for parents to talk about sex and sexual health and she mentioned that the challenge for many of us is two-fold:

Most of us did not get the help we needed to be comfortable with this.
The United States is culturally repressed when it comes to sexuality. Because of this we, as parents, fail to have conversations with kids. The message that most kids get from this  lack of communication is that sex is bad and they will get in trouble if they think about it or have feelings about this. The problem is that sex is all around us and our kids, in the media, online, everywhere, so they need to learn how to control this when they’re adults and how to look for the right porn movies to watch with their partners or alone.

Both of these factors end us showing the crazy relationship that our society has with sex, making it even harder to bring it up with our own kids.

Amy Lang shares though that the thing that we forget is that we are sexual from the beginning just like we are intellectual or social – it is a part of who we are. As parents we talk to and support our kids in regards to many of the pieces of their personality, but when it comes to sexuality, many parents shy away from this. There are acrtually a huge amount of sex toys that you can buy online so anyone can explore what he or she likes.

When we understand this, it becomes easier and we can then see that our main goal as a parent is to keep our kids healthy and safe and that talking about sex is a part of this too.
What is the Biggest Mistake Parents Make?

Amy Lang says that the biggest mistake parents make is that they wait until they ask about sex to talk about it. Amy Lang has worked with many people and families and has found that most kids will not ask their parents and if they do, it is only questions that hit surface-level questions.

Where does someone start if you have not started talking?

Start before 5th grade if possible. Don’t just let your kids get “sex ed” at school and expect they know everything.

Many kids even find it interesting to talk about this starting at age five says Amy Lang.
Waiting until after 5th grade will exposes kids to learning things that are incorrect through friends, online or some other source.

If you waited, that’s ok.
Get a book like one of the ones listed below, and start the conversation with your children by saying “I’m sorry, we should have started to talk about this sooner.”

What are the hardest conversations to have with your kids?

Talking about intercourse and cum lube
Talking about anal or oral sex

This is hard because it says we have sex for more than having babies and that it is pleasurable. Some individuals may even choose to hire the services of London Escorts for this reason.
It does not have to be hard to talk about this.