A little about the situation I am in I am currently in my third year of University, while my partner works full time. This means when I’m trying to study I still have a house to run and a 2 and 3 year old to look after. This is where the frustration starts.  Now I know many of us dads go above and beyond the line of duty to try keep our families and spouses happy. So last year I moved to help care for her family while she didn’t have a job which again I don’t mind. With the stress of University and trying keep on top of the children as well as the house I have started to suffer from insomnia probably a good thing so I have enough hours in the day. But with the other tiredness me and the children are struggling to get along, my partner is well aware of this, but it feels like she doesn’t care, and just takes advantage of the situation by going on nights out but then not getting back until 6am. I tell her I need a break or some time with my family but it shrugged off. With not wanting to cause tension between us for the sake of the kids. Please if you have any ideas that could help me please let me know.